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as you will have noticed in the book that you read one of the many difference between a STD transmission and an automatic is that: in the STD transmission there is a mechanical coupling between the engine and the transmission crosses from the clutch, in an automatic transmission the coupling is hydraulic. This hydraulic coupling is performed within Torsion converter.
The Torsion converter performs 2 phases: torsional pair multiplier and hydraulic coupling. But there are converters who perform a third phase that is mechanical coupling.
I hope you are not confusing you anymore.
1.- In cruise speed, the torque converter (or torsion converter) is in a hydraulic coupling phase, the stator serves to direct the oil from the turbine.
2.- At the moment you put the lever in the position D (logically you do it with the brake on the brake) you will have noticed that you feel as at that time a clutch was coupled.
At the moment you selected D the computer received a signal from a sensor called TR, at that time it energized a solenoid or more (depending on the transmission) to conduct the flow of oil to the 1st speed clutch, so you have or not step on the brake pedal those signals by the computer are already performed.
3.- Indeed the voltage that reaches the computer of said sensor is 0 volts
4.- The transmissions work with a pressure range, that pressure varies depending on the transmission, by accelerating you increase the pressure a bit. For example, if in a manual you see that in D there must be a pressure from 54 to 96Psi, if that pressure is increased there is a relief valve to avoid that there is a lot of pressure. (Like the engine oil pump or as the pressure regulating valve in the injector rail). Note, that pressure that gave you there is an example that in that range it will work in D without increasing 96 or decreasing from 54psi for the correct functioning of the transmission.
5.- That depends on the type of handling, for that the computer needs to know the values of engine sensors such as TPS, ECT, MAF, MAP, CKP and VSS
6.- In fact there are for example the manual valve, but each transmission is different you can find with simple transmissions of a single body of valves and more complex with several valve bodies.
7.- At least I only know it with that name
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